Why is it some of those around us have to give their negative opinion on everything we do in our lives? Whether it relates to work, home, family or friends they have to have their say.
Why do they struggle to just let us do and think as we do without forcing their ideals on us.
What makes them think they have such control over us? Do they think they are genuinely helping us or are they just interfering in our lives because they can.
And, the worst part is if we don’t agree, or follow what they think is best for us, they are often offended.
Who gives them the right to do this to us? Sadly we do.
Why can we not stand up and just say ‘thanks but no thanks’?
Do you think we are too soft and don’t want to offend anyone?
Now don’t get me wrong often we ask for someones opinion or advice and that is fine, we asked for it and we should be grateful and open minded enough to listen and consider what is given. I am talking today about the ones who try to dominate our lives from their perspective.
So what do we do if we find ourselves in this position. It’s not easy just to walk away from these people as they are often an integral part of our lives.
If you have any suggestions that we can share between us all then please comment so everyone can read. You never know we may just be able to help someone who is struggling with this issue.
Once we find the solution that is best for us to remove this negativity from our lives, we can experience the most profound healing experience.