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Being Normal -What is That?

Well the weekend has rolled around again and it has been a busy one so far and it is only Saturday afternoon.

Friday evening was spent with female friends enjoying their company, being a little silly and having a couple of drinks whilst sharing food and chocolate. During the evening photos were taken and placed on social media sights for all to see. Nothing wrong with that in my book and lots of us do it, that’s_what keeps these sights going. People wanting to see that we are normal, have a life and enjoy living in our own way.  Today I have received a message from someone who does not know me, has never met me, and never will meet me telling me I can’t be a good reiki and crystal healer as I drink alcohol. Apparently this messes with the natural energies and I will be poisoning my clients.

All I will say is I have deleted this message and will not let it upset me. Yes I do have the odd drink. I eat meat too and have no intention of ever becoming a vegan, green tea drinking tree hugger.  I am normal and I am me. Yes I am a vessel for the healing energies when I am working and take this very seriously, but I am also normal and have my vices. Please show me someone who doesn’t enjoy the odd treat every now and again.  Nobody can tell me they are so perfect that they have the right to criticise any one else.  And can I say I have nothing against vegan, green tea drinking tree huggers before anyone else decides to message me.

Hope you all enjoy the rest of your weekend. I know I will

Synchronicity

What exactly is synchronicity? I keep hearing this word crop up in every day conversation and wondered if we really know what it means. Sometimes when we hear a word repeated it is because it is just a buzz word of the moment, or something we need to take note of.

With this in mind I have been asking what others around me think. One lady I have known for a while and thought I knew quite well told me she doesn’t believe in synchronicity or fate. She believes in coincidence. This then got me thinking what is the difference as I believed they were all about  the same thing. Most have the same idea I did.

The dictionary tells me synchronicity is when something happens at the same time.

Twice one morning, within the space of 10 minutes, I asked my husband a question at the exact same time he was going to ask me the exact same question. I have to add here it does unnerve him when I do this and it happens quite often between us.

Yesterday a lady asked if she could book in for a quick tarot reading as as she had an easy question to ask. When I packed my bag for the days work that morning I wasn’t going to take a deck as thought I should have a day off for once. But, something made me go choose a deck at the last minute. Which I did and, thank goodness I did, otherwise the poor lady would have had to wait. Is this a coincidence, fate or all 3.

Today I was in the right place at the right time to be able to hold a healing session for a person I have worked with previously who just happened to be passing and had had a seriously stressful week at work. All they requested was a crystal healing for deep relaxation.

So which do you think it was? Synchronicity, fate or coincidence that brought us together this afternoon? I personally believe it was all three. We were both in the same place, at the same time and free to connect without any other influences. These are only 3 instances that immediately spring to mind on this Friday night.

Our friend Mr Collins tells me a coincidence is when an event may have been arranged but it wasn’t, it just happened and that fate is something that will happen to you in the future and we have no control over.

So, after discovering what the dictionary’s have to say I guess I have to conclude we are all maybe, partially, correct. No matter what events we are faced with in our lifetime we will always have control over some things but definitely not over everything.

Would love to know what you think and does synchronicity exist in your life. I sure believe it does in mine.

Crystal of the month of April – Green Aventurine for Kindness

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAThe theme for the month of April is Kindness and once again a crystal is suggested that may be of benefit. For this reason, Green Aventurine has been chosen as the crystal for the month of April.

What exactly is kindness and what makes one person kinder than another? And of course, which crystal is best suited to this theme.

Working with and carrying Green Aventurine opens up the heart chakra and unlocks a natural generous nature as it promotes empathy and compassion in those who wish to embrace its vibration and energy.

If we do not look after ourselves first and foremost we will soon start to feel less able to shower kindness on others, therefore we definitely need to nurture our own mind, body and spirit on a regular basis. When we learn to be kind to ourselves, over time it then becomes so much easier to naturally pass on this behaviour to others.

Kindness is when we give of ourselves without expecting anything in return. Have you ever sat back and thought about what impact your actions and words have on others and how you feel when we have shown someone an act of generosity and kindness? Does it make you feel better in yourself? Have you noticed that you then attract great acts of kindness in return from the ones that are around you in the most unexpected ways.

How could your life change if you were able to be mindful of yourself as well as others on a regular basis?

Carrying a piece of Green Aventurine, will help to open you up to making the sacrifice required to help someone else who is in greater need, highlighting opportunities where you will be able to offer your assistance before it has been requested.

Aventurine is a variety of quartz that can often contains bright particles of mica or hematite and is available in the different colours of peach, red, blue, green and brown.

When used in a healing environment it is particularly beneficial for warding off heart attacks and lowering cholesterol as well as balancing blood pressure. It is a very positive stone and brings about a stable state of mind and stimulates ones perception and creativity.

All crystal collections should include a piece of Green Aventurine as it very gently opens, clears and balances the heart chakra.  Try it and see what happens for you, you could be presently surprised.

Crystal of the Month for March – Turquoise

This month, Turquoise has been chosen as the crystal of the month. Turquoise is known as the anti-negativity crystal with the Native American Indians believing it bestows a deep feeling of thankfulness on those that carry it.turquoise

Why do we become thankless? What causes our thought patterns to work that way? Why do we not show gratitude for all that we have in life?

These questions have been highlighted as the theme chosen for the month is Gratitude. Turquoise is known to improve all communication activities especially verbal and the written word. When we make changes to our internal and external voice from the negative to the positive, over time we can only then begin to notice the simple things in life that have been overlooked for so long. Counting your blessings, and acknowledging everything that you have worked hard to achieve and have been fortunate to receive over the years shows that miracles really do happen on a daily basis.

Turquoise helps to introduce wisdom and understanding back into our lives. It opens our eyes to the beauty that truly is all around us. When we are absorbed in the negative we really are blind to the wonders that occur on a regular basis.  It also assists in promoting self-realisation as it slowly dissolves self-sabotaging thoughts and actions.

The daily practice of showing gratitude opens us up to a pure happiness and makes us more aware of exactly what we have achieved in our lifetime. This then works to reduce our stress levels as we no longer totally look towards what we want but rather to what we have already.

We often take our life for granted especially the most important things such as our friends and family, our home and possessions, our career. Can you imagine how you react if something suddenly happened and you lost all of the things that mean the most to you. How would you cope? How grateful would you be if it were possible to have these things returned to you. Why wait for them to be taken from you before you realise, show gratitude now.

This crystal is very popular for a number of reasons and is widely available. All crystal collections should include a piece of Turquoise as it reduces inflammation and pain as it detoxifies the whole body. It works to improve the immune system as well as balancing the chakras.

Crystal of the month of February – Rose Quartz

Rose Quartz Hearts

Rose Quartz Hearts

February has always been known as the month of Love. This is the time of year when we celebrate St Valentine’s Day, or, the feast of St Valentine, where we traditionally declare our undying love secretly or as in today’s world more openly. Cupid also is very busy during this time as he works along side St Valentine where he shoots his little arrow into the heart of your chosen one and makes the person fall head over heals in love with you.

For this month I have chosen Rose Quartz as my favourite crystal as it is well known as the stone of gentle, unconditional love. It teaches us how to love not only ourselves but all of those around us too. It opens up the heart centre to allow the feelings of true love to flow deep and wide.

But I hear you say, that is fine for those that are in a relationship already but how can Rose Quartz help me to find the love of my life. How can it attract a loving relationship to me???

Well I will let you into a little secret that has been proven to work in the past. Honestly. All you have to do is follow the instructions and believe.

Firstly take your chosen piece of rose quartz and cleanse it under running water and then leave it to recharge over night under the moonlight.

Then take a piece of A4 paper and draw a line down the centre. At the top of the left hand column write the word ‘Want’. At the top of the left hand column write the words ‘Don’t Want’.  Now this is where you can be as creative and imaginative as you want. Write down everything that you are looking for in a partner, and everything you don’t want also. You can list absolutely anything, from the colour of their hair to the type of car they may drive.  When you are happy with your lists, fold the piece of paper into 4 and place it in a safe place with your piece of rose quartz on top of it. And leave it alone. The only word of warning is be careful what you ask for as you may just be in for a shock.

When used in a healing environment it is especially beneficial to the physical heart and circulatory system. It is effective in the treatment of healing emotional wounds as it releases the negative energy that is stored in the heart chakra.

Why not consider enjoying the benefits of a personal one to one crystal healing.

Crystal of the month of January – Blue Lace Agate

Blue Lace Agate for Blue Monday

At the start of January we are usually full of beans and raring to race head long into the coming year. Then, as the month slowly trundles on the weather gets colder and the nights seem longer and darker. The bills arrive showing  any debt built up during the Christmas spending spree. We have usually abandoned our New Years resolution and lost our motivation to continue but still have a feeling that we need to take action. All of this leads to what the experts call Blue Monday, the most depressing day of the year and in 2013 it falls on Monday 21st January.

So, for this reason Blue Lace Agate has been chosen as our favourite crystal of the month as it brings in a cooling peace of mind and helps us to freely express our thoughts and feelings.  January is a hard month to get through for many as the lack of sunshine and warmth reduces our energy levels and this is where this crystal comes into its own. It is a deeply nurturing and supportive stone that works by evenly balancing out the physical, emotional and intellectual energies.

blue lace agateBlue Lace Agate is an amazing stone that works especially well on the throat, neck, shoulder and chest area. Opening up the throat chakra to allow free self-expression and new modes of communication which can be highly beneficial when one is starting to feel down and out of sorts with themselves.

This is a variegated form of Chalcedony that displays differing pretty shades of blue and white often found in a lace pattern effect when the stone is polished and tumbled.

When used in a healing environment it is especially beneficial to arthritic and rheumatoid conditions, which can be worsened during the cold damp winter months. It is known for strengthening the skeletal system as a whole and cleanses the lymphatic system.

Wearing a piece of Blue Lace Agate will enhance your mental function, increase your concentration levels and analytical abilities. This is exactly what is required to overcome the depressive feelings that can be sensed on Blue Monday.

If depression is something that does affect your life, why not consider enjoying the benefits of a personal one to one crystal healing. Contact me for further details

Crystal of the Month of September – Citrine

We find ourselves in a time of transition and transformation during the month of September, when the seasons once again start to change from late summer to early autumn. This period is known as the Autumn Equinox and this year it falls on September 22nd.  For those that are unsure, Equinox means equal length to both day and night time hours, ie 12 hours exactly and this is also an important time in the calendar as it signifies the first day of Autumn.

For this reason, Citrine has been chosen as this month’s favourite crystal to work with. September is the perfect month for us to look back at what we have received, experienced and learnt so far this year and give thanks before we start to prepare ourselves for the long, dark winter months ahead.

As the nights start to draw in, the arrival of colder days and longer hours of darkness can strongly affect our mood. Citrine is known as a happy and joyful stone that has the ability to bring about a deep feeling of euphoria and light heartedness. This makes it perfect to use in the coming months.

The Autumnal Equinox can also be known to some as Alban Elfed, Autumnal Equinox, Cornucopia, Fall Equinox, Feast of Avilon, Festival of Dionysus, Harvest Home, Harvest Tide, Night of the Hunter, Second Harvest Festival, Wine Harvest and Witch’s Thanksgiving.

Citrine is also a wonderful stone for manifesting our future wishes and dreams and removing any negativity and self-destructive tendencies that are with us that could be holding us back from achieving our desires. So carry your piece of Citrine to help you say thank you for what you have received and for what you have to look forward to in the future.

Did you also know that Citrine is one of the most powerful stones used for attracting wealth. Place a piece in your purse or wallet, cash box or on top of your cheque book.  A selection of pieces are available for you to purchase from The Happiness Centre from £1.  Try it and see what happens for you, you could be surprised.

If you would like to enjoy the benefits of a personal one to one crystal healing please email me on healthful.healing@yahoo.co.uk or telephone 07736 929614 to book your appointment today

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