I am not the one who crazy people go to for help, I am the one that normal people need when the world around them is going insane

Posts tagged ‘healing’

Have to Want to

Why is it when we want to do something it is so much easier than when we have to? Today I will change everything I have to do, to a want to do, and see how my day goes. 

Fancy joining me in doing the same?

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What is it that makes us sad?
What can we do to lift our spirits?

So often i see a client for a mediumship reading who has lost their nearest and dearest and can see as well as feel their sadness. I spent many years living my life this way when my dad passed to spirit. Sadness all around with no way to move it on. It was only when i went for my very first reading with a medium and received messages from dad that i began to mentally heal. Messages come in many versions and was told that i would also be sharing words from spirit and that would be my healing. Guess what, it was.

I cannot ever imagine my life being as it was now. What a turn around and each and every day i say thank you with a smile on my face. I am so grateful to be able to share my gifts and bring words and memories back to life from our loved ones who have taken their transistion.

If you need to put a smile back on your face go find what it is that lifts your sadness and brings you total happiness.

Opinions

Why is it some of those around us have to give their negative opinion on everything we do in our lives? Whether it relates to work, home, family or friends they have to have their say.

Why do they struggle to just let us do and think as we do without forcing their ideals on us.

What makes them think they have such control over us? Do they think they are genuinely helping us or are they just interfering in our lives because they can.

And, the worst part is if we don’t agree, or follow what they think is best for us, they are often offended.

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Who gives them the right to do this to us? Sadly we do.

Why can we not stand up and just say ‘thanks but no thanks’?

Do you think we are too soft and don’t want to offend anyone?

Now don’t get me wrong often we ask for someones opinion or advice and that is fine, we asked for it and we should be grateful and open minded enough to listen and consider what is given. I am talking today about the ones who try to dominate our lives from their perspective.

So what do we do if we find ourselves in this position. It’s not easy just to walk away from these people as they are often an integral part of our lives.

If you have any suggestions that we can share between us all then please comment so everyone can read. You never know we may just be able to help someone who is struggling with this issue.

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Once we find the solution that is best for us to remove this negativity from our lives, we can experience the most profound healing experience.

Reiki Share Open to all Reiki Healers

This wonderful band of reiki healers meet on the first Wednesday of the month, each and every month. This night is open to anyone who is reiki attuned. It doesn’t matter what level you are at, male or female, we all heal for the greater good of us all.

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The aim of the evening is to start by sending healing energy to wherever it is needed throughout the world before we all share on each other. We generally spend a good couple of hours together. We meet at 7.30 and generally finish by 9.30pm. And, all this just for £5 a person.
If you would like more information before comimg along to join us, please get in touch

Healthful Healing Group http://meetu.ps/2Tfxyc

Reiki Share Open to all Reiki Healers

Do you do reiki healing?
Would like to get into your reiki again but don’t know how or where?
Would you like to meet others who think the same way you do?
Would you like to be able to ask as many questions as you wish about your healing in a safe and comfortable environment?
Would you like to recieve as well as give reiki healing to some lovely people?

If you can answer yes to any one of these questions then you need to come and join us.

Our wonderful little group welcomes in many on a regular or adhoc basis for healing. We are open to anyone joining in as long as you are currently reiki attunded. Nobody worries about how much knowledge or experience you have, or what level you are currently at. We are all different in our own way but work together for the good of us all.

Healthful Healing Group http://meetu.ps/2R2z0k

Instagram

A lady today  suggested I started using instagram to promote myself and show pictures of exactly what I do. In her words ‘words don’t always cut it with you healing people when trying to describe what you do.’ Good job I am not easily offended and this I can fully understand as even I struggle sometimes to explain what happens when people come to see me.

I am new to all this social media so no doubt it will keep me quiet for awhile whilst I get used to all the buttons and knobs to press and cameras to use. Hubby will be pleased if something keeps me quiet.

So, if you are on instagram also, come and give me a shout. Would be lovely to connect and share photos with you.

You can find me at instragram.com/healthfulheals

 

Aside

Happiness

I  read this quote on the tinterweb the other day and it got me thinking

“Man only likes to count his troubles; he doesn’t calculate his happiness.”

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Just what is it that makes us happy? Whilst I am rattling on spend a moment to think about yourself and what makes you happy.

Is it helping others, is it what you own materialistically, is it what you would like to do, is it the memories you have from what you have done?

My life over the last couple of weeks has been manic and crazy with lots of changes going on. For those of you who don’t know my day job is working from the Happiness Centre in Ilkley, healing and running workshops and meditations and lots of other things as well. Well today it started about 10am, one after the other person called in to see me and sit and have a chat. Everyone of them had a trouble that they needed to talk about. The last one left about 3.30 and I was due to go home at 4. Now normally I would have been climbing the walls and trying to sort out all of their problems for them, but for some reason I just sat and listened, didn’t even offer any advice, nowt, not a bean, but.

Do you know what made me happy that day? It was that all of these people knew that they could come to me to offload. There was nothing I could do to change anything for them, that was down to them. They all felt 100% better when they walked back out the door again. At one point I had to ask one gentleman to call back in about ½ hour after he had had a wander around and had a coffee as the lady before him was talking some serious things that I felt nobody else should be hearing. Some days my working life is more like a coffee club than a zen like quiet space.

I wonder what makes some of us all negative and only concentrate on our troubles and some of us all positive and only think of the happy things in life. Do you think there is something we can do to make ourselves happier with our lot.

Someone once said to me, how can you expect to make others around you happy if you aren’t happy yourself.

Maybe it is up to us to spend the time and effort on ourselves first before we try to help others. Life is strange at times and often when these funny days happen it is because we have something to learn from it. My lesson was certainly to think of myself and not everyone else that day, not to take on their worries and woes and leave them to sort themselves out. That is what will make them happy when everything is resolved.

My dictionary says that to be happy you have to be glad or content, lucky or fortunate. So why is it, if we aren’t glad or content we don’t do something about it?

What is it that stops us from being happy with our lives at times?

Maybe if we could work that out just maybe we can make some nice changes to our lives. How many times have you said, I would be so happy if I won the lottery tonight or I would be so much happier if I had a new car, or a new house or etc etc, you know what I mean. Why do we say we would be happier if we had more things WHY????

What does being happy mean to you? Why is it something different to each and everyone of us? If I don’t understand and spend the time to find out what makes me happy how can I expect to make someone else happier in their life. We are all different in our outlook and expectations so let’s concentrate on being different but being happy.

How many of you know people like I do, they moan and groan and always complain. When you offer to help or give suggestions to them they always come back to you straight away with a reason why they can’t make those changes. Then have the cheek to say, it’s alright for you as though you don’t have to do anything to make your life ok and everything a bed of roses.

Maybe we just need to learn to leave them to get on with it in their own sweet way.

All the time I have been thinking of this I have had someone singing Ken Dodd’s Happiness song in my ear. It is still as cheesy as it ever was, for those not old enough to know what I am on about, google it. It will make you laugh I am sure.

Here are some of mine that make me happy on a daily basis that I will share:

Hugs, kisses, smiles, sending time with my family and friends, going on sunshine holidays, being able to pay my bills, having petrol in the car so I can get where I need to be, having food on the table that I like to eat, being able to take the dog for nice long walks in the woods and the fields, having a bit of money in my pocket so can go spending occasionally.

Maybe this time has given us all something to think about and if we aren’t happy with our lives then maybe we can find the courage to make some changes. We all deserve to be happy.

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